If there's one complaint common across the military, it's that commanders too often care more about their careers than the well-being of their troops. It's problematic when higher-ups are willing to put lower enlisted through hell if it means they look good at the end of the day.
Troops are quick to recognize this behavior but, unfortunately, commanders don't see it in themselves or they just don't care. There are plenty of cases, though, in which a leader will stick their neck out for the sake of their subordinates at the risk of their own career — because they understand what it means to be a leader.
This doesn't mean you should be soft. It means that you should think about being in your troops' shoes and understand the sheer magnitude of unnecessary bullsh*t they go through.
Here's why leaders need to care more about their troops and less about their promotion.
1. They're essentially your children
No one like to feel unwanted — and that's exactly what it feels like to have a commander who cares more about their career. It just results in unnecessary misery across the board.
Tough love without the love is tough.
(U.S. Marine Corps photo by Sgt. Emmanuel Ramos)
2. Troops respond to care with motivation
As previously mentioned, troops know when you're only after a promotion. Once they pick up on it, they're going to be reluctant to follow you anywhere. When it becomes clear that you do care, it motivates them to want to work for you. When your troops are motivated, they'll follow you anywhere.
They'll even charge into battle behind you.
(U.S. Marine Corps photo by Sgt. Ally Beiswanger)
3. You gain more respect
If you rely on your rank to get your respect, you're going to have a bad time. Your goal as a leader should be to earn the respect of your subordinates by being the commander who gives a sh*t.
Here's a tip: if a troop comes to you with a problem that doesn't need to be reported to someone above you, handle it in-house. Your goal should be to do everything you can to avoid having your troops crucified if they don't deserve it.
Respect is a two-way street.
(U.S. Marine Corps photo by Chief Warrant Officer 2 Pete Thibodeau)
4. They'll follow the rules
This may not always be true but when troops respect you, they'll go out of their way to make sure you look good because they want you to succeed and climb through the ranks. After all, kids want to impress their parents by doing good things.
Maybe your sign will look less and less like this over time.
5. They'll understand when they have to do something stupid
If your troops know you're the type who won't ask them to needlessly do stupid tasks, they won't blame you when you have to. Instead, they'll blame someone above you for giving you such a task to pass down and understand that you aren't trying to make their lives miserable.
In fact, they may even start to take initiative for minor tasks so you won't have to ask them to do it.
They'll be happy to do things like this for you, but only after you earn respect...
(U.S. Marine Corps photo by Cpl. Alejandro Pena)