4 ways to choose your next duty station as a family

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Apr 29, 2020 4:09 PM PDT
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SUMMARY

Moving to a new base is a family decision as much as it is a career move. When considering where to go, there is so much to think about beyond career path; for instance, health and well-being, proximity to family, available health services and more.…

Moving to a new base is a family decision as much as it is a career move. When considering where to go, there is so much to think about beyond career path; for instance, health and well-being, proximity to family, available health services and more.

Besides, sometimes it's just fun to live somewhere new! As a military family, you're likely used to frequent moves. But you can also find the right move that suits your interests, career changes, and more. Moving is a given, but when you get a say in where to go, it can make all the difference in mindset and family unity.


Consider finding a duty base that best suits your family needs for your next stop by:

Fulfilling family needs

First things first, what does your family need? Do you have a family member with certain medical needs? What type of amenities need to be nearby? Look at the proximity and quality of services close to each possible duty station. This information should be available online, with reviews so you can consider a move from afar. Military bases themselves might also offer this information, letting you know in advance what types of treatments are approved at each base. Or, find those who live there already and ask around.

Other things to consider include unique aspects to an area, preferences for climate, distance to important landmarks in your life (family, facilities, etc.).

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Considering adventure

Of course, moving somewhere new can be a great deal of fun! If you're ready to try out a new location, think about what can be done and how it's different from your current duty station. What activities are available that you can't do now? (Snow skiing, hockey, sailing, rock climbing, and more.) Can you easily travel to landmarks that interest your family? Will you be able to adapt to weather changes easily?

Look at the option for adventure when considering your next base and what type of activities each family member can take on. Keep fun and adventure in mind so you can experience new cultures as well as all there is to be seen.

Looking at career moves

It's also important to keep career changes in mind with a potential PCS. How will the move affect your military member's career path? Is there a compromise for their best move that will also help the family? Look toward a solution that helps -- or at least doesn't hurt -- a career projection in years to come.

This, of course, is based on you or your spouse's job in the service. Some jobs will have more location choices than others, while others might head to various bases, depending on the point they are at in their career.

Taking a vote!

If your kids are old enough, consider a family vote to decide where you might PCS. After all, they're being affected by this move, too, so it's only fair to consider their wants! It may or may not make a difference in the long run, but it's worth having a discussion.

Besides, a good old fashioned family vote just seems fun! While parents have final say (and ultimately the military has final final say), it can help kids to feel included and welcomed as part of the family when voting on upcoming PCS locations.

All in all, there is much to consider when looking at military moves. Look at responsible aspects, such as infrastructure and promotion path, but also consider just how much fun is to be had at potential addresses.

How does your family decide where to move next? Tell us below.

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