Joining the military is a life-changing decision that begins at the recruiter's office, but he or she isn't always forthcoming with the full deal, as we say.
While some military recruiters are helpful and consider themselves life coaches rather than a salesmen, they are all under pressure to meet their quotas.
These are 11 things recruiters might tell you, (along with what they're really saying):
1. You'll travel to exotic places.
This may be true but your definition of "exotic location" may be different than a recruiter's definition. The word "exotic" may evoke imagery of Hawaii, when the recruiter really means Afghanistan. Where you may travel also depends heavily on which branch of service you join and what job you get.
2. Don't want to be in combat? There are plenty of non-combat jobs available.
3. You can go to college while on active duty.
4. You have a good ASVAB score so you'll get a good job.
5. You only serve for 4 years.
While your initial active duty enlistment contract can vary in years (3, 4, 6) it is important to know that your inactive service time can extend much further. For example, A typical 4 year active duty enlistment normally includes another 4 year inactive ready reserve obligation. What that means is, once you get out, there is a small chance that you can be pulled back in.
6. Your job is guaranteed.
The job you sign up for is one of the most critical decisions you make so it's important you get it guaranteed in your contract. However, your job is only guaranteed if you make it through all your initial training successfully. Should you fail or get into disciplinary trouble, your job can change and it will be at your branch's discretion, not yours.
Just because you have Navy SEAL on your contract doesn't mean you are guaranteed to be one.
7. You will get a wish list of bases to get stationed at.
8. Your military school credits will transfer over to a college.
This can be true, but this often heavily depends on the job you choose and if the college you are attending is military-friendly and accepts those credits.
9. Your military job skills translate directly to civilian job skills.
10. You can get bonus money.
Sure, the bonus money is great but it's being offered for a reason. It's possible the job may not be desirable or the contract length may be longer. Make sure you fully understand all that is required to receive it.
11. There's a waiver for everything.
BONUS: You will become a better person.
For the majority of veterans, this is 100% true.