--- title: "8 reasons why everyone knows you were in the military" description: "People don't need to hear you ask if there's a veteran's discount or how your old unit did things. They know you were in the military." date: "2022-11-03" modified: "2023-10-19" authors: - name: "Blake Stilwell" job_title: "Editor-In-Chief, Air Force Veteran" link: "https://www.wearethemighty.com/authors/blake/" url: "https://www.wearethemighty.com/mighty-trending/everyone-knows-you-were-military/" categories: - "Join the Military" - "Military Culture" tags: - "Military Culture" - "Veterans" --- # 8 reasons why everyone knows you were in the military ![An older retired sailor stands next to a younger sailor in uniform.]() It's more than a Grunt Style t-shirt, those awful Oakleys, or an American flag ball cap—you know, the one with the IR patch on the front? People don't need to hear you ask if there's a veteran's discount or relate everything back to how your old unit did things. People can tell you were in the military just by looking at you. Here are eight things you do (either knowingly or not) that signal to everyone that you were once in the military ### 1. The way you stand. ![the way you stand in the military]() *Zulu foxtrot.* Some call it "command presence," while others call it "closed body language." No matter what you call it, you stand there with your arms crossed, feet planted beneath your shoulders, and shoulders slightly hunched. You're in a power stance; a military power stance. How better to show someone you're frosty, collected, and listening to them than looking like you're leaning on a pole without actually doing it. You may have even started the conversation with your hands on your hips, thumbs through belt loops. ### 2. You are always 15 minutes early to everything. People will figure out that if you aren't 15 minutes early, you consider yourself late. Especially since you'll call them to let them know... meanwhile, they haven't even left their house yet. For civilians, this works out because you'll always be at a restaurant where you can put the group on the waiting list for a table. They will use this to their full advantage. ![pog restaurant in the military]() *"Your party called ahead. What now, POG?"* ### 3. You move fast. It doesn't matter if you actually have to be anywhere at a certain time, you move with a sense of urgency, a sense of purpose. You know that Pinkberry will still be there no matter when you arrive, but you still approach the cinnamon churro froyo like T-1000 chasing John Connor. ![move fast]() *When you find out Yogurtland has froyo in Sea Salt Caramel.* ### 4. Your haircut. This is a dead giveaway. Why would anyone on Earth willingly subject their head to the [high and tight]() (or worse, the flattop) unless they were forced to keep it that way at some point? I'm pretty sure the coiffure equivalent of [Stockholm Syndrome]() takes hold in TAPS class. ### 5. You stand at parade rest for bizarre reasons. ![parade rest]() *Show the King of Burgers the respect he deserves.* Ever catch yourself staring out into the distance, perhaps over a lake at sunset, only to have an older guy tell you to "stop standing at parade rest for the goddamned lake, boot." It's a sign of respect for those above you and, after spending so long as an E-3, just a comfortable position to put yourself in. ### 6. Your ramrod-straight posture. You stand tall. We all do. That's not going to stop just because we stopped wearing a uniform. ![meeting in the military]() *Stand like you're \*supposed\* to be wearing a cavalry hat while meeting a foreign head of state. (U.S. Army)* ### 7. You walk with coordinated arm swings. ![drill in the military]() *It's like they drilled it into you or something. (U.S. Air Force)* Have you ever noticed yourself walking down the street with your right arm perfectly in sync with your left leg and vice versa? That's not an accident. You had all those military marches and facing movements drilled into you. They're going to hang around for a while. ### 8. You eat so fast, people wonder if you ever taste food. ![eating in the military]() Appetizers, dinners, desserts—all gone in the blink of an eye. Wouldn't it be great if you could slow down and enjoy the flavors of life? Well, you can't. This is because you're probably worried that, if you do, your stripper ex-wife will take that, too. ## Author Blake Stilwell is We Are The Mighty's Editor-in-Chief, covering military news, entertainment, and history, along with veteran education, employment and entrepreneurship. He is a former U.S. Air Force combat cameraman with degrees in Graphic Design, Television and Film, International Relations, Public Relations, Business Management and Middle Eastern Affairs. After leaving the military, he began working in film and television production in New York and Los Angeles, work that included ABC News, NBC Olympics, and HBO Sports. He then spent two years in Washington with White House Communications, before joining the Near East Foundation. At NEF he served as an International Development Fellow, then Communications Officer, and finally, Media Officer for the Middle East and Africa. Based in the Palestinian Territory, he coordinated strategic communications between eight country offices, international media, and government and NGO partners. He began a career focused on writing and editing in 2015 with We Are The Mighty. He left in 2019 for Military.com, but returned as Editor-in-Chief in 2025. Blake’s work has been seen on CBS News, Fox News, CBC, The Chicago Tribune, Task & Purpose, Military Times, Recoil, Skillset, American History, and was shockingly even used in a Supreme Court argument. He is an avid traveler and small business owner in Ohio, where he spends most of his energy fixing up a very old house. ### Author social links [Facebook]() [Twitter]() [Instagram]() [LinkedIn]()