As the spring showers fade, summer creeps in. You'll know it's here by the sights and smells before you. Things like classic backyard BBQs, the smells of sunblock, and fresh cut grass. But as a military family, summer looks a little different. That's because every two to three years this season brings moving trucks, item stickers, and road trips.
Every summer between 420K and 450K military families PCS. That's a whole lot of stickers. While many will stress themselves out over the process of moving, it doesn't have to be that way. Don't approach this season with dread. Instead, live your best PCS season ever. Here's how:
The internet can be your friend
Once you get your official orders, it's time to dive into researching. Find the military Facebook groups for your new base and start asking your burning questions. Here you should discover the best schools, areas, and all the other things you want to know about your new home. If you are moving on base, your next step is to have your service member contact the housing office. From there you can also check out Military One Source where you can type in the name of your new base and get all of the information you need for base resources.
If you are moving onto the economy, you'll find yourself utilizing that Facebook information you gleaned to settle on an area to rent or buy in. Once you've settled on your new home, take a deep breath – this will hopefully be the hardest part.
Organization is vital
There are so many amazing ways to stay organized for your upcoming move. Although Murphy's Law will always find a way into your beautifully-crafted move, organizing it from the start will reduce your stress. Step one is always to make at least 10 copies of your official orders and create a moving binder. In it should be all of your family's vitally important information like medical, social security cards, passports, etc. This will be where you start your moving bible, and from there you need an epic checklist.
- Military One Source has a great Plan My Move webpage that actually creates a custom checklist for you based on the information you provide. This is a great interactive tool to utilize during your PCS planning.
- My Ultimate PCS App is an amazing and free tool for your big move. It was created by two military spouses who have been there and done that.
- Are you a fan of Pinterest? Check out their endless PCS checklists created by seasoned spouses who know all the tips and tricks for a smooth move.
Time to pack out
The day has come! Your moving company has already done their inventory and they are arriving to box up your life. Here are some tips and tricks for an easy pack out:
- Pick a closet or bathroom where you can put all of the things you don't want the movers to pack. This area should house all of your must-have PCS items like cleaning tools for after the pack out and what you'll need to get to your new home. Things like your clothes/items for traveling, your moving binder, air mattresses, and coffee maker (don't judge) all go in here. Anything that is priceless to you should really go with you on your move and therefore in this area too. When we say they will pack everything, we aren't kidding. Stories of trash getting packed are a reality, cats too.
- Keep your animals caged or at a kennel to prevent them from getting lost or put on the moving truck. If you can lean on a friend to keep them during the pack up and out, even better.
- Do buy the movers a box of water bottles and lunch every day. They will be very appreciative and probably treat your stuff like gold because of your kindness.
If you find yourself struggling with the stress of moving, reach out to your support groups. Talk to people if you are feeling overwhelmed, we've all been there. Military One Source has 24/7 free and confidential counseling if you are a DOD spouse and CG SUPRT offers the same if you are a Coast Guard spouse. In the end, you've got this. The key things to remember are to lean on your community, be organized, and utilize all of your resources
Before you know it, you will be a master PCS-er.