MIGHTY CULTURE
Tiffany Lawrence

5 ways military friends make your life easier

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Listen! I'm just going to say it plainly. Military spouses are a different breed of people.

In spite of the fact that the ground under our feet is constantly shifting, we grow invisible roots with each other. And even though the faces in front of us change often, we find ways to connect and thrive. We lean on each other for support to navigate this lifestyle and at the same time create lasting connections.

Looking back, I don't know what I would have done with out my military peeps!

Here are 5 ways having military friends make life easier…


1. We cling quickly without judgment

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I typically don't have an issue making friends. What's cool is having that quality fit right in with the military world, without it being weird. It wasn't too hard to find my people and start friendships that still stand firm!

2. We share the same woes

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A few seconds into a vent session with one of my friends and the words, "Girl, I know right," are already escaping her lips.

3. We help each other parent military kids through the changes

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I had no family (other than my husband) to lean on when we became parents. But I still had a room full of supportive friends at my birth and even afterwards. They provided meals, washed and folded laundry and in general were just there for me.

4. We are the BEST resources

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There are many resources out there for us to take advantage of, but military spouse friends take it a step further. For those who have been there or done that, they provide a filter of what works for specific situations. Where I needed to go and what –specifically- I needed to do. Lifesavers!

5. We become family

Some of my best memories have been made with other military spouses and our families. We've created our own traditions, been pregnant together, taken world adventures, shared hard times and formed the deepest of bonds. There are many parts of my life that my blood family will never understand or weren't even able to be a part of because of the distance. My friends were there to fill the gap with love and camaraderie.

This sums up just how awesome, special, and necessary these connections with military spouse friends have been for my life!

What are some of the epic ways your military friends have impacted your journey?

This article originally appeared on Military Spouse. Follow @MilSpouseMag on Twitter.