"Consider that, first of all, you are a United States Marine. That is the beginning," Joseph Owen said just days before his death in August 2015.
He said it as if he were addressing all Marines.
"You are something beyond ordinary people. Now you want to take a step up from there. If you're not the best, you're gonna be. If you're not trying to be the best the Corps has, you're not worth a sh*t. Why are you here?"
Owen commanded a mortar platoon as a 2nd lieutenant in Baker Company, 1-7 Marines during the Korean War. Owen enlisted during World War II but saw the bulk of his service in Korea. As an officer, he was charged with turning an undisciplined group of reservist mortarmen into a force to confront the enemy.
"You always have to perform to your limit," he said. "Myself and a fellow officer, we used to sit around and talk about leadership all the time. Combat leadership doesn't mean a goddamn thing unless you have Marines that will continue the fight no matter what."
Becoming an officer changed his world.
"I'm not bragging, I'm just saying the facts: two Navy Crosses and a Silver Star – we know what the hell we're talking about," he said.
1. His most vivid memories:
"The North Koreans had much more initiative," he said. "They would come on you tenaciously and keep on the attack until you killed them. And in defensive positions, they were aggressive and used offensive tactics. Even pinned down they would get out and come at you. I had great respect for them. They fought with their brains individually. The Chinese were only tenacious because there was no going back."
"Some of the Chinese front line soldiers didn't even have weapons, they had stakes. They would try to get in close and kill you with that. The ones who came after them would try to pick up the burp guns of the first wave. If they got killed the third wave would come and pick up the weapons."
"The Chinese were wearing sneakers in 30-below-zero temperatures," he remembered. "Sometimes we came up on them, and some of them would still be in position, frozen solid. They'd put their hands up to surrender. We would take them, pull them out, and find they were just stumbling around on frozen feet."
2. On racial integration of the military:
"Two Southerners came to request to be in my platoon when they received a black squad leader, a Sgt. Long. When Sgt. Long was killed during a night fight with the Chinese, those two Marines requested to carry Long's body, because they wanted to pay proper respect to 'the best damn squad leader in the Corps.' When the fighting started, everyone was a Marine."
3. His take on modern American warfare:
"Today's troops cannot fight the way I know how to fight. You have to take the battle to the enemy and kill them. These days you have to go through rules of engagement, which ties the hands of soldiers behind their back. You have to keep on going and do not stop. Keep going and kill those bastards. No pity, no mercy, just kill them. As many as you can."
4. On North Korea today:
"We fought them to a defeat and now they have risen back and are – in effect – giving us the finger and getting away with it. What are we gonna do? We shouldn't let that little son of a bitch play around with atomic weapons. That pisses me off."
5. On harboring ill will toward an enemy:
"Hell no. They were fighting under the same orders I had. They were out to kill me, as I was out to kill them. Hell no. I respect them. I'd love to sit down with one of them and bullshit with them about what they were doing at such and such a time, especially if they were in the same battle as I was."
6. Why he wrote a book:
"I had been thinking for a long time something should be done to honor the Marines I fought with," Owen said. "I knew if I wrote about Baker Company it would also cover Able Company. We were all the same, formed up by the numbers, and we bonded very quickly. If I said Baker was the best, they'd say 'F-- you, we're the best.' We were the same. So I quit my business and wrote the book. This was a story that needed to be told."
"What I wrote about getting to Fox Company after they were under fire for five nights… we came up to Fox Company's positions. They had stacks of Chinese bodies set up as protective walls against enemy fire. They were using those walls to put down fire on the oncoming Chinese. When we came up on them, I was able to walk 50 yards on just Chinese bodies. There must have been hundreds of them thrown against Fox Company. This is the kind of thing I needed to write."
7. On life after the Corps:
"Stay active, be proud of what you do. What I say about the pride of being a Marine. That's all over the place — the rest of your life, make it a good one. Do good things for people to the best of your ability. I had a hell of a life, way beyond the Marine Corps. I look back at night before I go to sleep… I got millions of great, great memories. I remember everything. I think 'son of a bitch… you were able to get away with that!' "
8. Advice for anyone, military or civilian:
"If you've never been scared sh*tless, what kind of life have you led?"