There're no two groups of Americans that get along quite as well as the military and the first-responder community. It makes sense on a broad level; they're both occupations filled by people who hope to help their fellow man and make the world a slightly better place.
But it goes much deeper than that — it's not just a shared, we-got-10-percent-off-our-meal-at-a-restaurant connection.
They share the same culture
Part of what makes the Armed Forces fun is the inter-service banter exchanged between branches. Funnily enough, first responders playfully mock one another as well.
EMS will throw some jabs in jest at firefighters and firefighters will tell jokes at the police's expense. Hell, even within the different bureaus, police will riff on each other. Law enforcement officers and firefighters, just like Marines and airmen, will happily mock one another all day long, but treat each other as family when push comes to shove.
This is just one of the many areas in which the two cultures overlap.
They share the same lingo
Troops say a lot of little things that they don't realize are uncommon in the civilian world, but the lingo is easily understood by first responders.
The phonetic alphabet is an obvious one, but it makes my veteran heart grow knowing that police also call each other blue falcons.
They share the same bad days
The sad reality is that the bad days both groups experience can be hard to explain to civilians.
There are fantastic moments that you can be proud to share with your children and your spouse, but helping the world will also show you things that'll keep you up at night — you can't know this feeling without experiencing it.
They share a strong bond of brotherhood with their peers
It's no secret that troops are close to one another — and first responders are no different.
They grow together through shared pain, mockery, and brief moments of brevity until the sh*t hits the fan again. This level of camaraderie is respected across both groups.
Many have served in both
The main reason why so many of each community can relate with one another is because many troops leave the service and make a living as a first responder, and vice versa.
During a moment of peace in Basic or Boot Camp, it's not uncommon to hear a new troop say that they were a volunteer firefighter for a few semesters in college.