It happens almost every single year and it's always a giant fuss. A new recruit who is barely out of boot camp will wear their branch's dress uniform as they walk down the aisle at their high school graduation. The school will invariably be annoyed that someone isn't wearing the same thing as everyone else, they'll cause a fuss, and, suddenly, everyone is up in arms against that school.
Now, we're not going to throw any individual under the bus — so we won't name names — but trust me when I say that stunts like this are definitely boot moves.
This time, the near-annual graduation controversy started with two Marines in Michigan. They informed their school of their plans month before entering boot camp and the school, of course, rejected their proposal. The students graduated recruit training on a Friday and come back to Michigan to graduate high school the following Sunday.
First, it's important to realize that schools don't lack in compassion for the military and its troops, but the ceremony requires uniformity. The school made many concessions, including offering specially-made tassels, just like those worn by honor students, woven in red, white, and blue. They also offered to announce their military rank as they received their diploma and annotate their service in the rosters and the programs.
Even still, the students walked in their dress uniforms instead of the standard caps and gowns. The school's superintendent allowed them to walk to keep their families happy. Afterward, an unnamed school board member discretely expressed to the students they were not happy with the rule violation, but that they also respected their service. This gentle aside then hit the internet, was blown out of proportion, and now the school board members are being made to look like as*holes.
The fact is that the uniform of the day was a cap and gown. These recruits disobeyed that order. When moments like this happen in the military because someone is trying to be an individual, the offenders swiftly disciplined. When this happens in the civilian world with recruits fresh out of boot camp (in this case, literally two days out of boot camp), the civilians who put out a simple rule (and offered many compromises) are made out to be the bad guys.
Each school has a policy on wearing uniforms to graduations. Some allow it, some don't. The entire state of New Jersey, for instance, allows all troops to wear their uniform to their high school graduation. If the school allows troops who've completed their initial entry training to wear a uniform, outstanding! Go for it! If not, the school shouldn't be vilified for asking a young troop (and student) to follow a guideline.
If you still feel compelled to wear your dress uniform in an unofficial manner, wear it under your cap and gown. It's as simple as that.