Editor's note: Heather Southward Golczynski, Christian's mother, posted the following message on her Facebook page. That message is presented here as a reminder of what Memorial Day should be about for all Americans.
With Memorial Day weekend upon us, please take a moment to reflect on the true meaning of your long weekend. It will be full of BBQs, adventures on the lake, beach trips, cold beer, and well-needed time with family and friends. Go buy a new mattress at a 20 percent cheaper price or take advantage of $1,000 bonus cash when you buy a new car if that makes you happy. My family will enjoy the weekend too, and Lord knows our heroes would do the same if they were still here.
All I am asking is that you take a moment to remember the men and women who gave their lives so you could enjoy your freedoms and your tomorrows. Doesn't have to be a huge gesture -- just say a little prayer for the fallen and their families; raise a beer to the Heavens in thanks for those who made the ultimate sacrifice, reach out to a Gold Star family and remind them that their hero is not forgotten; pay your respects at a veterans cemetery; learn a hero's story and share it with others.
One day a year is set aside to honor the fallen. One single day. The very least we can do is take a moment to say "thank you," to say their names, to tell their stories, to preserve their legacies, and to honor and remember.
Memorial Day is more than a 3-day weekend. For some of us, Memorial Day is every day.
Go have fun. Be happy. Enjoy your day off. Spend time with loved ones. Laugh and make memories. Just take a moment to reflect. Live for them. Remember the true meaning of the day, and have a safe and meaningful Memorial day weekend.
May we never forget.
(h/t: Erin Yaggy)