Promotions are an exciting event in a military career, and celebrating them comes standard. The question, however, comes in what type of celebration to expect -- essentially, how big is too big? And what's the "norm" for each rank and service branch?
Because everyone who gets promoted to a new rank is presumably doing so for the first time, there's a steep learning curve. You can talk to others or attend services of those ahead of you in order to learn what's expected by you as the service member.
Big or small, salute them all!
It doesn't matter if you're getting your first promotion or your 10th, it's something to be excited about! Enjoy your achievement and bask in the progress of your career. Don't overlook a promotion for it being "small," but rather take time to pat yourself on the back.
This is a big deal; you've earned it!
Early career promotions
Consider that, earlier in one's career, promotions will come faster. It's easier to climb the ranks your first few years in. There's nothing wrong with this, only to keep in mind that in years to come, promotions won't come as easily, or as frequently.
It's a good idea to communicate this to friends and family, too. So they aren't expecting fast pay jumps … and to give them a better idea of how the military works. In fact, it's a good idea to keep your loved ones in the know for a better communication process about your future.
Pinning and pomp and circumstance
No matter what rank you're pinning, there will be some type of ceremony. Keep in mind that, depending on the circumstances, they could be a big deal, or something simple. For instance, if deployed, you might have a fast "here's your new rank" get together. While, when stateside, you can invite loved ones and plan an actual event.
In general, you get to choose someone to pin (or velcro) on your new rank. Decide who you want this person to be, whether a family member, co-worker or someone else who's made a profound influence in your life. Ask them in advance, and if they aren't associated with the military, coach them on what/when to add said insignia.
Promotion ceremonies usually come with much tradition and history. These traditions will vary based on branch, unit and career path. Be sure to get in on the fun and play up whatever will take place. As a member of each branch, you're likely to know what's ahead and how the ceremony will play out.
For instance, army members might exchange coins, Marines will march in and out of their promotion stance, and so forth.
Reaching the big jumps
When reaching higher ranks, more is expected on promotion day, most notably a cake! Sources say, even at 8 a.m., a cake will be eaten, and showing up without one is simply not done.
Whether enlisted or an officer, upper ranking soldiers will host a reception to celebrate their big day, and the size of that reception often depends on the rank itself. In general, this is usually E7 or O4 and above, while E9 or O5/O6 will host an even larger celebratory event. Each branch will have its own nuances, so check with those in your unit, or scour the net for best practices with each upcoming promotion.
When a promotion sits ahead, consider the best way to celebrate. Not only to bask in your achievements but to follow within military traditions based on your achievement and branch.